The points below are inspired by the last post
about the married man and his maid interestingly. Remember? If you did not read
it, please check here
A reader who has seen this happen a lot decided to send me
likely reasons men tend to cheat on their wives with their domestic workers i.e
maid, cleaners, cooks, nannies etc
Please, check them out....
Please, check them out....
Lack of Attention
For crying out loud, this woman was fixed on a common soap opera
while things were spoiling under her nose. Who knows? It may have been the
reason the affair started in the first place. I advise women to pay good attention to the needs of their husbands because this is very important really. These things happen a lot and the truth is,
the reasons are usually almost the same. In a nutshell, we are like babies at heart when it comes to attention but unfortunately people don't really know how much we crave it. Give us attention wives! #Ok
Women Get Relaxed after Marriage
This is more common among African women. They lose their
sexiness after marriage and after childbirth by tying wrappers, wearing annoying
clothes, wearing unkempt hair, putting on so much weight. Some even go as far as
not allowing their husbands get intimate with them. I am not saying there
are no ‘dog-men’, I am just saying, do your bit! #Hmm
Creativity in Bed
Some women do not know more than the missionary style which
can be boring. I am a man, and I will tell you, men easily get bored. So if you
are married and you cannot do other styles during s*x, I am sorry you might
have to work on yourself first and then, maybe, put away every woman who lives in
your house that is not related to your husband. Because, woe betides you if evil
happens and your hubby tests one of those girls who know it better than you. I mean, even if your husband cheats on
you, it should not be with your domestic workers because, truth be told, the pain lasts longer!
Let me rest my case here HD. Thanks.
Wow! I am amazed. Seems there are justifications for every
wrong doing these days. #LOL. Hey, this is not to say that this HD Reader has nailed it! Because I think there is truth in his points.
But dear friends, readers etc, what do you think about this fellow's points?
But dear friends, readers etc, what do you think about this fellow's points?
Articles like this are the reason patriarchy is alive and well in Nigeria and it's a shame I am reading it on a woman's blog.
ReplyDeleteAll these points don't stop men from cheating. As a matter of fact most maids aren't sexier or meat looking than their 'madams'. Just as most women men cheat with are mostly not as beautiful or hot as their wives. Most men cheat for the adventure.
ReplyDeletewell said @hannah.. so that reader should go and take a seat joor!
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