Tee Billz shares more about Tiwa, asks God to accept his soul

Ha! Do we still think it is a hacker? It is looking like there is fire on the mountain indeed. May God help them.

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MTO reports a rape incident in Lagos, Nigeria.. And it's so funny

This is the first time I've read a gist from Lagos, Nigeria on MTO. I must say I am impressed about the report and the fact that they did not refer to the place as Africa.. LOL. Please, my dear foreign friends, who do not know this, Africa is a Continent that has 54 independent countries and still expanding, may be.

By the way, read MTO report below..

MediaTakeOut.com learned that a young man who tried to rape his girlfriend has had his just reward after the girl managed to bite off his manhood. The incident occurred in in Lagos, Nigeria. According to witnesses, the young man had taken the girl whom he had met few days earlier to his friend's place, with the intention of having sex with her. But it turned out to be tragic for him as the girl was said to have refused his sexual advances.

Pastor Anita Oyakhilome pens down her views on abusive relationships and marriages

The former wife of Christ Embassy's founder, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome shared her views on abusive relationships and marriages in a post on her blog titled 'There is always something to be thankful for' and there is a lot to learn from that.

After an abusive relationship or marriage, there is no doubt you will have feelings of deep sorrow for a long time, which could go on for possibly months or even years. These feelings will come and go periodically as you reflect and you remember things from the past that would make you feel distressed.
You may be inundated with disappointments, which may lead you to voice your regrets, especially coming across certain people or a person. Several Instances could cause flashbacks and bring back thoughts of regret such as; signing a contract, making a decision, joining an organization, trusting people, buying a property. Also your mind would question why you hung unto a dead marriage or stayed in an abusive relationship. Don't stay in that condition for too long.

WHICH DO YOU PREFER???

Hey Friends! How did your Christmas Celebration go? Mine was awesome and fun-filled #winks# Don't bother about the details... Hehehehe

So I was just thinking about how some things were done in the past and how they have really changed over the years.

Do you remember those days when girls used to be referred to as roses and flowers when there was a marriage intention or proposal? When the man's parents and kinsmen would come to the girl's family and say lines like:
   "We are from Okoye's Compound, we saw a beautiful flower in your house and we have come to pluck it" LOL..( I can't imagine being plucked though, whoa!!)

The age of innocence, when the flowers were kept and watered diligently until they were blossoming. Hmmm .Such a wonderful time right?

Today, the flowers go around by themselves announcing to everyone who cares to know that they are ready to be toasted plucked... hahaahaha. Babes dey vex!!

Infact, a lady was like, "I got to water myself and show the men that I am here ooo, no dulling".

Interestingly men seem to prefer the self-announcing flowers. According to some guys, the Old School style is 'LOOOONG THIIIIING'.

But you, my friends, readers etc, which do you prefer? Do you prefer having to go with all your kinsmen before you start  running things or do you prefer the flowers come to announce themselves?

MATCHMAKING GONE WRONG?

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I have never been a fan of matchmaking much less Online Match Making. I love to see what I am buying before paying plus I love good things, including my men #winks#. Heheheheh.

Apparently, my friend is not like me. She believes you can find love anyhow and anywhere. Afterall, doesn’t Rihanna’s song say ‘We found Love in a hopeless place’? Hmmmm

So she met this guy through her other friend who never physically met the guy. According to her friend, the guy was cool, handsome, rich, lived in the US and worked with an IT Networking Firm. They exchanged pins, numbers etc and boomed! Relationship started. They got close, my friend would receive calls into the night, he would pay most of her bills, shop boxes of clothes for her, (and hey! Sincerely, I got jealous at some point…shhhh, it is a secret, just between me and you, ok?).

Even I who was skeptical at the beginning just went with the flow cos it was too real to be a lie. Afterall, I could see his handiwork in my friend’s life, and of course in mine too, as I got really cool designer’s #winks#. I could also see cool profile pics and some facial video clips of him, so what else?

But my skepticism returned when my friend started talking about marriage barely three months later. I tried to make her give it some time, but it fell unto deaf ears; she no gree oo. So I had to just support her, I mean, what could I do but to hope for the best?

Long story short, the guy came home. Yay!! For introduction, Engagement and the Wedding. By the way, the guy had wanted a proxy wedding (you know, getting married to a picture), but we all, with our heavy boots kicked against it.

On the day he came to my friend’s house for the first time, I was with her because we were expecting the August visitor. At hearing the knock at the door, we rushed out full of expectations. She got to the door before me. But as I was about to say, ‘Babes let them in na’, (he was supposed to come with his friend, btw) I heard a resounding thud with my friend on the floor almost lifeless. I was confused but tried to help her. I was just trying to lift her when I got a glimpse of what she saw. Jeez, you don’t want to know.

He was a baby with a man’s face. (Now, don’t get me wrong, he was supposed to be a 35 year old. Shhhhh, secret)

We succeeded in resuscitating her.

If you found yourself in this situation, what would you do? Would you leave the guy heartbroken after you made him a promise of marriage? Would you stay with him considering how wonderful a person he was?

And oh! My aso-ebi is still in my closet, don’t even know how to wear it.