Hey Friends,
I came across this article on what men crave in bed on Cosmopolitan and I thought I'd share with you. Since I am not a guy I really don't know how true these points are. So I ask, guys, are these really what you crave in bed? Would you stay with your woman forever if she gave all these??
Check out the cravings....
1. We Want You To Talk Dirty.
2. We Want You to Take Control Sometimes.
3. We Want You To Initiate New Positions.
We really like it when you throw us a curveball. If there’s
a new position you’ve found that you want to try, please go for it. It can be
some hugely creative, elaborate sex circus that involves a Jacuzzi, whipped
cream and bananas but introducing a modification to old standbys like doggy or
missionary can also work. Don’t even worry about whether or not the position
ends up “working” for the two of you. It’s a turn-on just knowing we’re doing
something you want to try.
4. We Want To Be Surprised.
I’ll admit, some guys can be intimidated if you start
pulling out vibrators out from underneath the mattress in the middle of sex.
But throwing some new things in there to shake up your lovemaking is really
never a bad idea. You can even make the sex itself a surprise: jump your
significant other in the hallway or on the stairs and just turn it into a sex
session. Moments like that, where you can’t control yourself and just have to
have us are always appreciated. Introducing some costumes, his-and-her
lubricants, toys, and role-playing can also work. Just keep in mind that some
of this stuff is outside of people’s comfort zones. Make sure you know what
your guy likes before you bust out the latex nun outfit and rubber fist.
5. We Want To Watch You.
Visual stimulation really gets guys going. Choosing
positions like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl where we can really get a view of
what’s happening is hugely arousing. Alternatively, any position can benefit
from a well-placed mirror where we can get a full view of the action. If you’re
feeling really courageous, let your man watch you while you touch yourself. If
you really want to drive him crazy, don’t let him touch or kiss you during the
session, so he gets really worked up. This also has the added benefit of
showing him what turns you on because he can see how you get yourself off.
6. We Want You to Mix Things Up.
Repetition can make once-hot sack sessions seem ho-hum. So
be open to varying things in bed. Any change in speed, pressure, or position
will make the act more interesting and pleasurable. "Variety keeps him in
a heightened state of arousal because he never knows what to expect," says
Block.
During foreplay, wrap your fist around his member (with
lube!), moving it up and down with long, smooth strokes. Then add your other
hand, and gently twist both hands in opposing directions. When you get to
intercourse, start off slowly in missionary. Next, rest your feet on his
shoulders for deeper thrusting. Finally, roll over, and let him enter you from
behind.
7. We Want To Take You.
The best way to bring out the sexy beast in your guy?
Initiate some take-me-I'm-yours action. "He'd love to be raw and
animalistic with you, but he needs to know you want it too," says Brame.
"Kiss him seductively and then pull away, saying that if he wants more, he
can come and get it." During the act, you can also tell him
"harder" or "faster" if you feel like he's handling you
with kid gloves.
Wow!! Ladies can you handle these? If yes, then fasten your seat belts..Hahahahaha
Sex is like dancing, u can do it like salsa or ogriyan and it's still beautiful... Lolz
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