A few days ago, flashes of the images I made in my head
from a book I read in the past came to mind out of the blues and all I could do
was wonder how the “50 Shades of Grey” I read like ages ago was all up in my
head. Well, as they say, be careful what you put in your head, right?
As I struggled to free my head of all erotic details of
Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele, I remembered a rather funny story a young
lady told us at a gathering sometime in the past.
It happened that we were at an audition which had taken
longer than we expected. So out
of boredom, people unconsciously started forming groups in which they talked
about funny events that took place at some point in their lives.
Everybody had something to say or laugh at in my own group. I mostly laughed,
of course.
But the chatting got really interesting when a lady stood up
and asked, “ please, ladies, who hates being spanked during sex as much as I
do?” The question threw all of us off balance as everyone looked at her in
shock.
“I know people do not like talking about things like this and I hardly know you but I need an answer”, she added. “Ok, here is the thing, I don’t like spanks
but my boyfriend does it all the time even after I told him I don’t like it”,
she continued. “The other day we were barely into the thing when he started
hitting me hard. I got frustrated and stopped him. But since I was tired of
telling him to stop, I decided to do to him what he does to me. Ladies, do you
know that when I got on top and spanked him, my boyfriend got really mad and
ordered me to stop?”, she explained further laughing hysterically.
To not make her feel bad, we all managed a laugh that was
more fake than it was real. LOL
Truth is, even though this happened a long time ago, so many
questions pop up in my head whenever I remember this lady and the passion with
which she stated her pain and discomfort about her boyfriend spanking her
during sex..
To answer some of my questions, I decided to conduct a survey on men and women's views on spanking and I came up with this percentage breakdown:
I Like It:
Men - 90%
Women - 10%
On who should do the spanking...
All the men said the men should be the ones in charge
Some of the women said they would like to do the hitting. LOL
In my opinion and from my knowledge of the SUB/DOM relationship, the man or the woman can be the Dominant depending on the agreement. Just my opinion!!
Friends, what do you think?
Spanking during sex has been promulgated by most porn movies and you see most time they're on drugs and doing what their director instructs. Does it then means that it is pleasurable? Besides, even some guys may like it, what about the ladies. Sex no be punishment oh, but a show of true love. . .
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